Dreams are the hopes which carry us through the days. They give us something to look forward to. No matter how 'fanciful' it may seem or petty to other people. They are your dreams, your desires, your hopes that get you through. :)
stacey
· 3 years ago
*raises hand*
Dallas sucks to raise a kid and Starbucks isn't all that great.
You've had a dream and now you feel as if it's gone. I think a little grieving time is deserved as long as you don't lose yourself in it. There are people around you that will help you through that and then be there on the other side.
vita
· 3 years ago
it's good to have dreams, yes.... but if you spend all your time stressing and complaining about them not coming true? you're in for a miserable rest of your life.
a lot of kids are raised with a lot less and they come out fine. not having everything handed to you on a silver platter builds character. think of the people you know who have had everything handed to them since birth. what do you think of those people? do you have respect for their accomplishments?
for someone who seems to have such a charmed life, you really wallow a lot in what you percieve as the least bit negative. snap out of it, dude. i'm 28 and my husband just left. you know what? that's fucking life! i have to get over it. at least your dreams are still within reach. maybe you can even get close to them, which is a lot more than some people get. if you want a baby, have one. it seems you're in a better position than most people i know who have them. nobody's life is perfect, nor will it ever be.
Jillithian
· 3 years ago
I had a terrible drunk night last Saturday which involved me telling a complete stranger that I'm jealous because everyone gets to have babies except for me. She (who is with child with my friend's baby) asked, "Oh. Have you guys been trying for a while?" No. We just decided to wait. But that doesn't mean that it doesn't get pretty damn frustrating when other people get to start living the dream that you have to wait for. Especially when it seems like its everywhere you look. My friend C is due April. T is due November. H is due December. N is due November. And most of the others all have kids already. It's like I'm a fat person on a diet and suddenly a Krispy Kreme truck explodes in front of you.
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No matter how 'fanciful' it may seem or petty to other people. They are your dreams, your desires, your hopes that get you through. :)
Dallas sucks to raise a kid and Starbucks isn't all that great.
You've had a dream and now you feel as if it's gone. I think a little grieving time is deserved as long as you don't lose yourself in it. There are people around you that will help you through that and then be there on the other side.
a lot of kids are raised with a lot less and they come out fine. not having everything handed to you on a silver platter builds character. think of the people you know who have had everything handed to them since birth. what do you think of those people? do you have respect for their accomplishments?
for someone who seems to have such a charmed life, you really wallow a lot in what you percieve as the least bit negative. snap out of it, dude. i'm 28 and my husband just left. you know what? that's fucking life! i have to get over it. at least your dreams are still within reach. maybe you can even get close to them, which is a lot more than some people get. if you want a baby, have one. it seems you're in a better position than most people i know who have them. nobody's life is perfect, nor will it ever be.
Waiting for shit sucks.